Saturday, December 17, 2011
Why do players always seem to get the girl?
I ask because after getting out of my long term relationship I ended up tagging along with one of my friends who was fairly smooth in the ladies. This little fling of mine taught me a lot and I learned how to get almost any girl for a hook up. However I find that sort of behavior degrading to women so I can honestly say I am not proud of that, and after the fling I would rather have an honest relationship. My issue is that I can't seem get a girlfriend to save my life. Whenever I go to pursue a girl for more than a hook up I'll drop all the games and be, more or less, straight up. I don't bombard them with texts or go out of my way to see them or anything like that, I know better, but I don't play any of the hard to get games because I find it very immature. Isn't that exactly what girls what when looking for a relationship? I don't want to have to "play" a girl to go out with her, that's ridiculous. My last experience, for example, started off with this girl pursuing me very openly. At first I didn't have any feelings for her but over time it grew and it seemed like as soon as I asked her out everything came crashing down. I was fed up with the way she was acting so I point blanked her and got "I just want to be friends" only to find that as soon as I started to treat her as such, she began to flirt with me again. Am I just going after the wrong girls or is this something I'll have to learn to accept? I'm 18 if it matters and the age of girl's I'm referring to ranges from 18-22 ish.
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