I dont know what to do for contraception, can anyone help me?

I am quite against hormonal methods of contraception as all they seem to do is mess with my body ie I put on weight, I get mes of spots, my moods are terrible and I bleed non stop the whole time I am on them so i would prefer to use something with no hormones but that doest leave very much does it? DH isnt very keen on condoms and to be honest neither am I because it reduces the feeling we both get and the coil containing copper is supposed to make your periods more painful which is something I definately dont need. My doctor has told me that a diaphragm is practically useless and I should get the implant put in my arm. This freaks me out and I am really not comfortable with having a piece of plastic stuck in my arm for 3years plus they have to cut you to get it in and out-does that not seem wrong to you? So I really dont know what to do, should I stop being silly and have the hormonal implant or should I listen to my body and try and find something else? Please help me out!